Divorce although common in today’s society, can be a difficult time.
Although you fell in love with someone and expected to live a lifetime together creating memories to look back, on the inevitable does happen and people fall out of love, circumstances change and thus people change. Some cases are much more extreme and divorce is the only way out to live a happier more content life.
However, the journey has it’s ups and downs. 2 people may have had a mutual agreement and respect that divorce is the solution. All things are flowing fine, and then all of a sudden, a change of heart and emotions begin to build up and you or they eventually erupt.
You’ll find out that everyone around you is now an expert, and knows exactly what is going on, going on in your mind as well the soon to be ex spouse. In reality no-one will ever know what is going on in your mind, they will only have an idea.
This begins the rollacoaster of emotions, and the point at which you would want to keep the best care of yourself. That’s where I come in, being by your side to help and support you stay aligned with the process at hand, assisting you in making the best decisions for you to survive the journey and stay above the emotions.
You will be at time be feeling as if you have been put on display and having to make major decisions that will have an affect on your future, again this can not only be daunting, raising your anxiety and panic about what is right or wrong. I will be assisting you to make decisions with a clear head and realistic thoughts or the present and future.
The way in which I work is as follows
- Find out more about you, who you are as a person, the achievements and the successes you have had.
- Work out where you see yourself in the future, your ambitions, the images you would like to see around you.
- We will look at the divorce process,
- Discover your daily routines to help enable a workable structure to maintain a healthy lifestyle and outlook on life.
- Work together side by side to develop meaningful and realistic strategies to make clear decisions.
- Support you without judgement and be on your side.
As already mentioned, each Divorce is different and no matter how calm you may be, the rolla-coaster of emotions can erupt at any time.
When it comes to detailing the finer items such as the finances, child arrangements emotions do come into the mix.
I, myself know the traumas that are experienced with the journey of divorce and how it not only affects you as an individual with your mental health. It also has an impact on your relationships around you, work, family, friends and even the people you pass on the street.
You will at times expect everyone to know what you are going through, have the true essence of the struggles and stresses you are experiencing, and then after the divorce is completed, just like a number of people do, you will then begin experience other challenges such how to date again, or how to stay focused when you are now alone, or what to do when you next see your children.
Well because of this we offer an going coaching support programmes that work on a rolling month basis, you will have access to us to ensure that you are well looked after. When I mention ‘us’, well I work alongside other coaches where we are able to shares the support of our clients so that they are able to access the best of knowledge.
To find out more please do contact us via a message or simply book in a FREE 1-Hour call to discuss your matter further.
Frequently Asked Questions
The coaching, can be done in various ways and depends on the client. Happy for over the phone, face-to-face or online via Zoom
That depends entirely on you and how willing you are to make changes in your life, this is something that would be determined during our initial FREE call.
Unfortunately no, the only clients that I work with are people that are serious about change. Only once you know passionately that you want change and are willing to put the work in. If not it would be a waste of money and time for the both of us.
My background in Divorce, is actually living it and going through my own journey. I have experienced not only the struggles of Divorce, but, also the after effects and the process of forms, courts and maintaining a healthy relationship with the Ex.
Yes, is the simple answer. NLP helps and supports changing your views of how life is and creates a pathway for you to adapt more meaningfully to the environment around you.
This totally depends on the situation, however I have had discussions with a number of parents. Once I have coached the parents the dynamics of the parent-child relationship changes and they no longer need my services.
Due to the methods used for the Executive Coaching, the only initial fees would be for the setup. We are that confident that the remaining invoice would be due at the end of the coaching programme.
Each coaching session lasts between 45 minutes to 1-hour. As you can see there is no set time, just an estimate, as some clients are very clear on what they want to work on, and then we book in the next session.
I am an NLP Master Practitioner/Trainer, Certified Marshall Goldsmith Executive Coach, Reiki Master and Yoga Teacher, and have been coaching clients since 2010.
But it is not only about having or not having qualifications, it is also about the experience and the life skills.